The best swingers clubs in the Netherlands - complete overview 2026
Visiting a swingers club is an adventure many couples fantasise about. Whether you want to breathe new life into your relationship, are looking for an exciting experience, or are simply curious, swingers clubs offer a unique opportunity to explore your fantasies in a safe, discreet environment.
In this article you will find a complete overview of the best swingers clubs in the Netherlands. From luxurious high-end clubs to more accessible options, from clubs exclusively for couples to venues where singles are also welcome. We help you find the swingers club that perfectly matches your wishes and expectations.
Once you have agreed together that you want to take the step of visiting a swingers club, it is important to determine which club suits you. There are several in the Netherlands, but they can differ considerably. Below we compare the options, so you can make a well-informed choice.
What is a swingers club?
Swingers clubs are meeting places for people who are open to new sexual experiences, both with their own partner and with others. These clubs offer a safe and discreet environment to take the first steps into the swinging scene. The atmosphere is comparable to a regular nightclub, complete with bar, lounge, dance floor and often a restaurant.
What sets swingers clubs apart are the relaxation areas such as saunas, jacuzzis, darkrooms and rooms specially designed for sexual
activities.
Differences between swingers clubs
No two swingers clubs are alike, and which type suits you best naturally depends entirely on your preferences.
Fortunately, the selection in the Netherlands is relatively large and diverse. There are swingers clubs that are more luxuriously appointed. The entire experience often resembles a fully equipped nightclub, spa and restaurant all in one. The entry price for such clubs is naturally higher.
There are also more straightforward swingers clubs, with a correspondingly lower entry price. The type of swingers club is also characterised by its dress code. This can be very strict, such as lingerie only, or quite relaxed. Not all swingers clubs admit singles. There are luxury clubs where only couples are allowed (true couples-only clubs).
There are also clubs where, in addition to couples, single women are welcome, and clubs where single men are admitted as well.
Finally, there are also swingers clubs that are particularly suited for BDSM enthusiasts.
Find the swingers club that suits you best
Using the list below, you can determine which swingers club suits you best. We compare a number of the best swingers clubs in the Netherlands based on specific characteristics, such as the entry price, who is welcome, the dress code and the style.
Fata Morgana - Muiden
Fata Morgana is a high-class swingers club and ranks among the largest and most complete luxury swingers clubs in Europe.
The number 1 in the Netherlands.
- Who is welcome: only couples are admitted. Threesomes are also welcome. Single men and women are not.
- What to do: There is a bar, a large dance floor with a professional discotheque and top DJs, a restaurant, luxurious relaxation areas (incl. darkroom, SM room, orgy loft) and a modern sauna complex. During the summer months, the outdoor complex is also available. This includes a large garden with an outdoor swimming pool.
- Dress code: lingerie.
- Entry price: Friday €130,- per couple, Saturday and Sunday €150,- per couple.
- Your entry price includes all drinks, an extensive dinner and use of all facilities.
- Free membership is required upon your first visit.
- 📍: Muiden
- http://www.fata-morgana.nl/nl/start.html
Fun4Two - Moordrecht
Fun4Two is a renowned swingers club in the Netherlands, known for its luxury facilities such as a sauna, tantra temple and various play rooms.
It is somewhat past its prime (2024), but the new owners say they plan to renovate, so it is worth waiting and reading reviews before you go.
- Who is welcome: Couples and single women; the audience tends to be somewhat older.
- What to do: Luxury facilities such as a sauna, tantra temple, various play rooms and themed evenings such as Ladies Night and (S)Expert Night.
- Dress code: Sexy lingerie for ladies, men in boxer shorts.
- Entry price: Couples €95,- on Sunday, €130,- on Friday and €165,- on Saturday, single women between €50 and €70,-.
- One-time membership fee of €20,- required.
- 📍: Moordrecht
- https://www.fun4two.nl/index.html
Club Showboot - Zaandijk
A boat that has been fully transformed into an atmospheric swingers club, moored in Zaandijk, just outside Amsterdam.
- Who is welcome: both couples and singles; the audience is mixed.
- What to do: This boat converted into a club offers a luxurious, erotic setting. The vessel features 2 stylish decks finished largely in lacquered wood, copper and red velvet. There is a dance area with a live DJ, a buffet corner and lounge. There is also a BDSM room, jacuzzi, sauna and Turkish steam bath.
- Dress code: Fitted boxer shorts for men (no swimwear or sportswear) and lingerie for ladies. On a first visit, you are allowed to remain clothed at the bar until the initial nerves have settled.
- Entry price: Prices vary depending on the day. Men pay between €87,50 and €110,-, women between €10,- and €40,- and couples between €25,- and €82,50. This includes all drinks, buffet and other facilities.
- 📍: Zaandijk
Club Paradise - Amsterdam
Club Paradise features a sauna, Turkish steam bath, darkrooms,
secluded erotic rooms and a luxury dance floor. At the bar
you can enjoy delicious drinks and snacks.
- Who is welcome: Both couples and singles.
- What to do: Luxurious wellness facilities alternating with a bar,
dance floor, as well as lockable private rooms. Newcomers receive
a tour first. Every third Sunday of the month: BDSM.
- Dress code: Sexy outfits. Men in boxer shorts, ladies in a matching set or lingerie.
- Entry price: Couples €60,-, single ladies €10,- and single men €95,-. On Sundays couples enter free, with a minimum spend of €40,- on drinks and snacks.
- 📍: Amsterdam
Parenclub Monique - Wieringerwerf
This club has extensive wellness facilities such as a sauna and jacuzzi, and regularly
hosts themed evenings.
- Who is welcome: both couples and singles
- What to do: Parenclub Monique offers a relaxed and welcoming atmosphere for newcomers and experienced visitors alike. The club has extensive wellness facilities such as a sauna and jacuzzi, and regularly hosts themed evenings. You can enjoy unlimited dining, with table service.
- Dress code: Lingerie or an alluring outfit.
- Entry price: Varies per (themed) evening. Single women pay €40,- and couples €100,- to €120,-. Check the website for the price per evening. The price includes unlimited food and drinks (including spirits), use of towels and condoms, a lockable clothing locker and use of all facilities.
- 📍: Wieringerwerf
Sameplace - Amsterdam
Everyone is welcome here. Sameplace offers a mix between a cosy, typically Amsterdam-style cafe and a swingers club, providing an accessible introduction to swingers clubs for beginners.
- Who is welcome: Everyone
- What to do: A cosy cafe in an erotic setting. Nothing is obligatory, everything is allowed is the motto here.
- Dress code: Black shoes, shirt and trousers for single men; beyond that, almost anything (including nudity) is permitted.
- Entry price: Couples €10,- + €20,- minimum bar spend, single women €5,- entry + €10,- minimum bar spend and single men between €10,- and €25,- with minimum bar spend.
- 📍: Amsterdam
Parenclub Mystique - Rucphen
Parenclub Mystique in Rucphen is not the most modern swingers club in
the Netherlands, but it does offer an accessible atmosphere and many facilities such as a restaurant, bar, sauna, large bubble bath and various themed rooms.
- Who is welcome: Couples and single women and men. At weekends, the club is exclusively accessible to couples (and women).
- What to do: Tucked away along a country lane in an oasis of beautiful trees. There is a restaurant where you can even barbecue, a large
bubble bath and a sauna. In addition, there are various themed rooms.
- Dress code: Most things are allowed, as long as it is neat.
- Entry price: Depending on the day, couples €75,- to €130,-, single ladies free on Monday and Thursday, otherwise from €20,- and single men €100,-.
- 📍: Rucphen
Partyplayers - Lelystad
This club is spaciously designed and offers an all-inclusive experience with an outdoor swimming pool, themed rooms, sun garden, dance floor and restaurant.
- Who is welcome: Couples and single women and men
- What to do: There are plenty of relaxation options, in the
outdoor pool or in the sun garden, there are various play rooms and even an 'Amsterdam alley' where you can let your imagination run wild.
- Dress code: No strict dress code, but you are expected to dress neatly. For ladies this means a sexy dress, lingerie or club wear, and for men smart boxer shorts or club wear.
- Entry price: Varying prices. At weekends, couples pay €80,- to €90,-, single women €50,- and single men €90,- to €110,-.
- 📍: Lelystad
Other swingers clubs in the Netherlands
The list above offers a mix of different types of swingers clubs across various price ranges and with diverse styles.
But there are many more swingers clubs in the Netherlands:
● Organza in Utrecht
● Eroroma and Swingers Oasea in Drenthe
● Le Baron in Gelderland
● Ultimate Dream in Noord Brabant
● De Zaar, Devils's camp; Angels, Kasteel Waterloo and Pleasure 2 Gether in Limburg
Your first time at a swingers club
Have you never been to a swingers club before? Many swingers clubs cater to first-timers. For example, you may be allowed to keep your clothes on initially, or you will receive a tour upon arrival.
Swingers clubs are accustomed to new visitors and the nervousness that comes with it. They are almost always prepared to put you at ease, so you can enjoy a pleasurable and exciting evening.
Are you unsure about your first visit to a swingers club and would you like to know how it works? Read our comprehensive guide for your first swingers club visit.
Also fun and exciting: the novel "De Parenclub" by Alexandra Leijs. Read a tantalising excerpt from the book here.
What to bring to a swingers club
Good preparation makes your visit even more enjoyable. Many couples bring a lubricant for extra comfort. Condoms are also essential - safety comes first. And do not forget: beautiful lingerie adds to the atmosphere and your confidence.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the difference between a couples club and a swingers club?
In practice, the terms are often used interchangeably. A couples club traditionally only admits couples, while a swingers club may also welcome singles. Nowadays, many clubs have their own admission policies, so always check the house rules of the specific club you wish to visit beforehand.
Do I have to participate immediately when visiting a swingers club?
Absolutely not. You decide where your boundaries are. Many couples come for the first time just to watch and soak up the atmosphere. No one is obligated to do anything, and 'no' is always respected. You can simply sit at the bar, dance, or relax in the lounge without participating in any sexual activities.
What should I wear to a swingers club?
This varies by club. Upscale clubs like Fata Morgana often have a strict dress code requiring lingerie. Other clubs are more flexible and ask for 'smart attire' or a 'sexy outfit'. Always check the dress code on the club's website. As a general rule: lingerie or a sexy dress for women, smart boxer shorts or club wear for men.
Are there swingers clubs that only admit couples?
Yes, there are clubs exclusively for couples, such as Fata Morgana in Muiden. These clubs do not admit single men or women. This creates a particular atmosphere and dynamic. Other clubs do welcome singles, usually at a higher entry fee for single men.
Can I remain anonymous when visiting a swingers club?
Discretion is essential in the swingers club scene. Clubs handle privacy with great care. Photography is almost always prohibited, and many visitors use only their first name. You need not worry about your visit becoming known - other visitors share the same interest in discretion.
How much does a visit to a swingers club cost on average?
Entry prices vary considerably. Simpler clubs start at around €40-50 per couple, while luxury clubs such as Fata Morgana charge €130-150 per couple. At more expensive clubs, everything is often included: dinner, all drinks, and use of all facilities. Always check beforehand what is included in the price.
How do I prepare for a first visit to a swingers club?
Discuss clear boundaries and agreements with your partner beforehand. Choose a club that matches your experience level and preferences. Most clubs have a dress code, so enquire about this in advance. Take your time - there is no obligation to participate. Observing is perfectly fine. Personal hygiene is important and expected by all clubs.
